If you had met me a few years ago, you would’ve seen someone who proudly wore the label:
Extrovert.
I thrived in social settings.
I was energized by people.
I loved teaching, sharing, writing, connecting.
I used to be that person who was always in your inbox.
Posting.
Blogging.
Showing up.
But life has this way of shaping us, doesn’t it?
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The last few years handed me some of the hardest chapters:
- Becoming the long-distance caregiver for my mom as her dementia rapidly progressed.
That experience was one of the most emotionally complex seasons of my life—I wrote about it here. - Facing relationship struggles that shook my foundation.
- Walking through a cancer scare that forced me to reevaluate everything.
Somewhere in the middle of all that… I changed.
I Became More Private (Maybe You Did Too)
I slowly started pulling back.
I stopped sharing.
I became quieter in my business.
Emails, that shared more than a business tip, became harder to send.
Blogging from the heart became harder to write.
Even showing up on social media felt like too much.
Not because I stopped loving what I do.
Not because I didn’t care about my community.
But because life had pulled me inward.
I wasn’t just “off the consistency wagon.”
I had built a fortress around myself—a protective cocoon—and I didn’t even realize it.
This Isn’t a Story About Burnout. It’s About Seasons.
For a long time, I thought I was failing.
Failing at consistency.
Failing at leadership.
Failing at my brand.
But I’ve come to realize—it wasn’t failure.
It was a necessary season of retreat.
Sometimes life calls us inward so we can heal, process, and just breathe without the pressure to constantly produce.
And sometimes, the healing happens with practical boundaries and support. If you’re caring for someone you love, this resource list might help.
But here’s what I also know:
Staying in that season too long becomes its own form of hiding.
I’m Ready to Open Back Up (Slowly)
I’m learning how to open the door again.
How to let a little more light in.
How to find my voice again—gently, without rushing.
I’m learning to write again, to send emails again, to share stories again.
Not from a place of “needing to be consistent,” but from a place of genuinely wanting to connect.
If you’ve ever found yourself feeling this way too—more private, more withdrawn, hesitant to show up—I just want you to know:
You’re not alone.
And you don’t have to come roaring back.
You can come back softly.
You can start again—quietly, imperfectly, but fully as yourself.
A Gentle Nudge for You (and Me)
If life has called you inward, I honor that.
If you’ve stopped showing up because you’ve been busy surviving, I see you.
But if you feel that little whisper to open back up again—let this be your permission.
- Hit publish.
- Send the email.
- Share the story.
It doesn’t have to be polished. It just has to be yours.
And if you’d like to come along as I reopen, rebuild, and reconnect—I’ll be sharing more right here on the blog and in my emails.
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Or leave me a comment below: Have you ever felt yourself shifting from extroverted to more introverted? I’d love to hear your story.
